H2O Magazine

In this article I write about my joy of becoming a parent and about how my life has changed since the birth of my son. It came as quite a shock to me a few years ago when my girlfriend told me that she was pregnant. We had in truth been trying for a baby, but I never thought it would happen. I am not really sure why this was, I am stupid I know. I have to admit that I was quite scared at first but now feel very lucky and he has truly changed my life in a positive way.

I have always been far more interested in business than becoming a dad; I am involved with various projects to do with composite doors, helping people to obtain cheap hotel deals and also offering clients a stuttering treatment course.

<h3> Joy of Seeing New Born Baby</h3>

I have never felt so happy as I did when I first saw my gorgeous son; they are emotions that are virtually impossible for me to describe . He was so small and light. I was handed some milk to feed him and he soon started to knock it back, a bit like me with the beer I thought to myself. To my astonishment and fear I was left all alone in the room with my new born son; totally unaware of how to look after such a tiny child – my son’s mum had gone off for a relaxing bath – which it has to be said she fully deserved.

I was left feeling very pleased and contented as I had just become a dad for the first time but I also had a strange feeling of needing someone else there just in case something went wrong. I could not stop staring at him, he was so perfect. Scared, what an idiot I thought, you are the luckiest man alive.

My whole attitude to life has now changed, in the past socialising with my friends was a massive part of my life. Even though I still do go out with them, I have to say it is probably only around half as much as I used to. You might think I am sad but when I am out I do miss all of my family including my son.

Every morning he is the first one to wake up and walks into our room and says, morning! I open my eyes to see a very happy child looking down at me. Dad, it is time for you to make me some food please? He loves his food! This has to go down as the best form of alarm that I have ever had.

I have always been the type of person who is often anxious and stressed. This it has to be said can be known to lead to a stage of continued depression. Nowadays whenever I feel any of these symptoms I spend as much time as possible with my son as he soon puts a smile back onto my face.